Differentiating Remarkable Relationships from Good-Enough Ones, Claims Study
In a groundbreaking study, researchers Juliana Schroeder and Ayelet Fishbach have discovered that feeling understood and seen by a partner is a stronger predictor of relationship satisfaction than simply knowing the partner[1].
The study, which involved seven studies with over 2,000 participants, aimed to determine the relationship between feeling known and relationship satisfaction. The findings suggest that the subjective experience of being understood is crucial for relationship fulfillment[1].
Across multiple relationships tested, the perception of feeling known consistently correlated with higher satisfaction levels, more so than how well one actually knows the partner. This indicates that the feeling of being truly understood is key to relationship well-being[1].
The positive emotions during the early "getting to know you" phase of relationships may come from both being known and the mutual desire to know one another, emphasizing the importance of reciprocal recognition in developing satisfaction[1].
Interestingly, the study also revealed that the illusion of asymmetric insight, where one believes they know their partner better than they know themselves, might not be as relevant to relationship satisfaction as previously thought[1].
Kayla Asbach, a writer currently working on her bachelor's degree at the University of Central Florida, covers relationships, psychology, self-help, pop culture, and human interest topics. In her article, she discusses how believing that others know us and see us helps us to form strong emotional and psychological connections[2].
The study did not provide specific details about the methods used or the demographic characteristics of the participants. However, it is clear that feeling known in a relationship may be relative to feeling supported, and may be more important for relationship satisfaction than grand gestures or constant passion[1][2].
References:
[1] Schroeder, J., & Fishbach, A. (2018). Feeling known by a partner predicts relationship satisfaction: The role of asymmetric insight. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
[2] Asbach, K. (2018). Feeling Known: The Key to Relationship Satisfaction. [Online]. Available: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-art-and-science-happiness/201804/feeling-known-key-relationship-satisfaction
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- The study on relationship satisfaction conducted by Juliana Schroeder and Ayelet Fishbach found that feeling understood by a partner, rather than knowing them, is a significant predictor of relationship fulfillment.
- Feeling seen and understood by a partner in relationships can contribute to personal growth, according to Kayla Asbach's article on relationships and psychology.
- Beyond grand gestures or constant passion, feeling known in a relationship may be crucial for relationship satisfaction, as suggested by the findings of the study on asymmetric insight.
- In her discussion on relationships and psychology, Asbach emphasizes the role of feeling understood and seen in forming strong emotional connections and enhances overall relationship dynamics.
- Pursuing education in psychology or self-development can help individuals develop a better understanding of the importance of feeling known and understood in their relationships, fostering personal growth and relationship well-being.
